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“Filled with forgiveness and love, and a story of rebirth and transformation that recognizes our deepest fears and hurt, and offers a path to healing.” John de Graaf, co-author of AFFLUENZA and co-founder of the Happiness Alliance.
When Life Blows Up: A Guide to Peace, Power and Reinvention is both a story of growth and reinvention as well as a guide to living authentically and vitally. Cylvia recounts some truly difficult circumstances, and is quick to take ownership with breathtaking humility and poise. Her story is inspirational and instructive. I highly recommend this to anyone enduring difficulty and hardship. John Nash, CFO.
When Life Blows Up takes the reader on an intimate journey through a devastating public shaming that destroyed my business, countless relationships and even my personal sense of identity. Through the annihilation of who I believed myself to be I discovered the True Self I hadn’t yet met and opened to new opportunities I hadn’t known existed. This book is for anyone experiencing loss, grief, and unexpected life upheaval. It offers proven strategies for:
- MANAGING FEAR EVEN IN CRISIS
- FINDING POWER IN SURRENDER
- HARNESSING FORGIVENESS
- RELEASING SHAME AND GUILT
- REENTERING CAREER and COMMUNITY WITH PEACE AND POWER
“This book can serve as an inspiration for anyone who feels that they can’t possibly get up after life has knocked them down.” John Kitzhaber, former Oregon Governor
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Who is Cylvia Hayes? Oregon's first lady derailed by bad judgment, environmental zealotry, quest for validation
This summer, as Oregon Gov. John Kitzhaber kneeled on a bank of the Rogue River to propose to Cylvia Hayes, he presented her with an engagement ring meant to recall past triumphs.
The governor designed the jewelry himself. It featured two diamonds and a dark blue stone representing the Earth, a reminder of the "Earth Star Award" Hayes received in from her friends and fans at the Central Oregon Environmental Center.
The award was, all things considered, a minor prize for a woman who would soon travel the world as a governor's spouse. But the acknowledgement – that she was making a difference, that she had made something of her life – meant enough to Hayes that her would-be fiancé wanted to make it part of their collective story.
Hayes' personal, political and professional lives were intertwined – as usual.
In her role as Oregon's first lady, Hayes has depicted her life story as a sort of fairy tale: Poor girl bootstraps her way to success, falls in love with a powerful man, together they save the world. But a closer look – as close as Hayes, who declined to answer questions for this story, will allow – suggests something more reminiscent of Greek tragedy. Friends, fellow environmentalists and political allies describe a woman with a desperate need for affirmation, a weather eye on the next opportunity and a giant blind spot when it comes to how others might perceive her.
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Hayes has never been shy about using her personal story for political and professional effect, for good reason: It's a compelling tale of steep odds overcome.
She was born in August in Seattle, the first person in her dirt-poor family born outside Oklahoma or Arkansas. Her mother had left her first husband for his younger brother, Orville Johnson, Hayes' father.
Hayes was small when her parents saved enough to buy a piece of farmland a Cylvia Hayes is policy adviser to Gov. John Kitzhaber on clean energy and economic development. She is also his longtime companion, and as First Lady, she has made poverty and hunger her key issues. Share this article! BY ROBIN DOUSSARD Cylvia Hayes was raised a “serious farm kid,” driving trucks and running chain saws by the time she was She went on to get her master’s degree in environmental studies from Evergreen State College in Washington. She currently is working on a paid fellowship from the Clean Economy Development Center, based in Washington, D.C., and is policy adviser to Gov. John Kitzhaber on clean energy and economic development. She is also his longtime companion, and as First Lady, she has made poverty and hunger her key issues. She’s a huge football fan (Seattle Seahawks, Ducks and Beavers), and if she could have just one superpower, it would be teleporting. “Because [being First Lady] is a bit too much travel.” BEING FIRST LADY “It was a really hard entry for me. The thing I didn’t see coming was the expectation of the role. The institution hasn’t really caught up to accepting a modern, professional, politically engaged person. I came in expecting not to take the title of First Lady, because [we aren’t married]. But it was impossible not to take it. Most people just started calling me that, and it was too difficult to stop people.” THEY SAY I’M … “[Laughing] It depends on who ‘they’ are. My friends would say I’m hardworking and passionate. My critics would say I’m overly intense and ambitious. John would say I’m a beautiful person inside and out. He just said that the other day. OFF HOURS “I don’t take a lot of actu Cylvia Hayes is an award winning public speaker, empowerment coach, new economy strategist and professional environmentalist. In , while serving as First Lady of Oregon, Cylvia became the target of a devastating politically motivated public shaming that went on for several years. This led to a deep inner awakening that changed the course of her career, her life and her concept of herself. Cylvia’s coaching work centers on helping people facing transition and reinvention. She is founder and CEO of 3EStrategies, a long-standing social enterprise consulting firm and director of ANEW, a project that supports people transitioning out of incarceration and into jobs in environmental, renewable energy and sustainability sectors. Cylvia teaches a college level course on Economic Illusions, Truths and Dangerous Assumptions. To her amazement and amusement she is well into the training to become an ordained Unity minister. Cylvia lives in Bend, Oregon with a home and backyard like a wildlife sanctuary. Her greatest loves are her life partner, John, her son, Jonathan, dogs, horses, hiking and camping and all things Nature. For more information visit and First Lady Cylvia Hayes is a passionate advocate for solving poverty and hunger issues.
// Photo courtesy State of Oregon
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